i resigned in 1971--no one shunned me--untill 10 years later when it was announced i was now "apostate" ( i hadnt been attending any meetings for a long while ). my dub-wife also divorced me. ( adultery )
my kids started to shun me as they became young adults---by then i had remarried. i had no contact from then since--except the older son--who was d/f a few years ago--we are now very close.
however--his mother shuns him. so she has never seen her new grandson. but i do---and will be staying with them at christmas !
not seen my younger son for many years now--i dont even know his address.
i see my oldest--my daughter--from a distance--we live in the same town. but--no contact.
i had no clue all this would happen --back then--34 years ago.